Leo Buscaglia once said "A single rose can be my garden..a single friend, my world". Friends do not need much, only one friend who is trustworthy is enough. In our life, friendship becomes a part of life, and is our second family. Everyone has fake or real friends surrounding them, and we cannot tell who is who until we experience truth. When a friendship breaks apart, people can notice their friends who are fair-weather or trustworthy friend. There are several reasons that make a friendship end.
People extend their friendship everyday, and grow apart with old friends day after day. People always like the freshness of love, even friendship. In friendship, when people have new friends, there are always many conversations between them; because of the freshness, they have a lot of things to talk about. People are forgetting their old friends, and have fewer meetings and conversations with them because they are attracted by freshness, and feel bored with the old friends. For example, when two people are getting to know each other very well; while they are meeting, the silence between them would made them feel embarrassed, with topics to talk about. Furthermore, when people are far away from their friends, it may also make a friendship break apart. In my experience, I came to the United States without my control, and then I received a new education in America, and made new friends in America, and lost contact with my friends who are in China because needed to start a new life here. All of all, that's one reason why friendships end.
William Blake once states " It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend." People do not trust the same friend twice because if you give them a second chance, it lets them hurt you a second time. For example, you might tell a secret to your best friend because you trust him, and he made a promise not to tell anyone else. Then after few days, everyone who is around you knows the secret, and it make you embarrassed in front of everyone. You feel betrayed, and never trust him again, that brings a friendship to an end. In addition, a false is always fake in front of you. They pretend they are a good person in front of you;however someday they might stab you in your back somehow. False friends always exploit friendship to take advantage of it, and make their life easier. If you are not following the "direction" which they said, they definitely say something very bad and dirty words behind your back. A simple example everyone experienced is, in school whether in junior high, high school or college, many students like to copy homework and exams from good students. First of all, they make up friendship with good students, and then they start to copy and copy. Then good students not allow they copy again, false friends will begin to talk very bad and dirty words in back of good students. At last, a friendship end.
A selfish friend expects you to always be there for them when whey are in need, and runs away from you when you are in need;however, a real friend expects to always be there for you. Perhaps your selfish friends lack of money for emergency and try hardly to get pitied from you for money;then you give him money out of sympathy. However, they do not remember your help. They always remember when you did something bad to him, and use this reason to reject you when you need help. In addition, a selfish friend like stingy man expects you to help him to pay for everything for him when you are hanging out, and save his money for himself. Selfish friends always say "Today I forgot to bring my money", "Next, it is my treat", or "I lost my money" to refuse to pay. In their mind, money is more important then friendship, or money is balance to friendship. "No money?" "Okay, it is not necessary to make up a friendship" "Money?" "Okay, let's try to make up a friendship." These friendships will end eventually.
Even though there are many reasons that make friendship end, I believe good friendship is not about who you spend the most time with, it's about who you have the best time with. Cherish best friends or real friends around you;it is important as our family.
People extend their friendship everyday, and grow apart with old friends day after day. People always like the freshness of love, even friendship. In friendship, when people have new friends, there are always many conversations between them; because of the freshness, they have a lot of things to talk about. People are forgetting their old friends, and have fewer meetings and conversations with them because they are attracted by freshness, and feel bored with the old friends. For example, when two people are getting to know each other very well; while they are meeting, the silence between them would made them feel embarrassed, with topics to talk about. Furthermore, when people are far away from their friends, it may also make a friendship break apart. In my experience, I came to the United States without my control, and then I received a new education in America, and made new friends in America, and lost contact with my friends who are in China because needed to start a new life here. All of all, that's one reason why friendships end.
William Blake once states " It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend." People do not trust the same friend twice because if you give them a second chance, it lets them hurt you a second time. For example, you might tell a secret to your best friend because you trust him, and he made a promise not to tell anyone else. Then after few days, everyone who is around you knows the secret, and it make you embarrassed in front of everyone. You feel betrayed, and never trust him again, that brings a friendship to an end. In addition, a false is always fake in front of you. They pretend they are a good person in front of you;however someday they might stab you in your back somehow. False friends always exploit friendship to take advantage of it, and make their life easier. If you are not following the "direction" which they said, they definitely say something very bad and dirty words behind your back. A simple example everyone experienced is, in school whether in junior high, high school or college, many students like to copy homework and exams from good students. First of all, they make up friendship with good students, and then they start to copy and copy. Then good students not allow they copy again, false friends will begin to talk very bad and dirty words in back of good students. At last, a friendship end.
A selfish friend expects you to always be there for them when whey are in need, and runs away from you when you are in need;however, a real friend expects to always be there for you. Perhaps your selfish friends lack of money for emergency and try hardly to get pitied from you for money;then you give him money out of sympathy. However, they do not remember your help. They always remember when you did something bad to him, and use this reason to reject you when you need help. In addition, a selfish friend like stingy man expects you to help him to pay for everything for him when you are hanging out, and save his money for himself. Selfish friends always say "Today I forgot to bring my money", "Next, it is my treat", or "I lost my money" to refuse to pay. In their mind, money is more important then friendship, or money is balance to friendship. "No money?" "Okay, it is not necessary to make up a friendship" "Money?" "Okay, let's try to make up a friendship." These friendships will end eventually.
Even though there are many reasons that make friendship end, I believe good friendship is not about who you spend the most time with, it's about who you have the best time with. Cherish best friends or real friends around you;it is important as our family.